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Finding Your People: Building Community in Challenging Times
You Belong Here
Strong communities aren't just nice to have during periods of rising authoritarianism—they're essential for survival and resistance. History shows that fascism thrives on isolation, working to break down existing social bonds and prevent new ones from forming. Building deep, resilient communities is both a personal necessity and a powerful act of resistance.
Why Community Matters Now More Than Ever
Strong communities provide:
Mutual protection and support during crises
Rapid response networks when members are threatened
Information sharing when official channels become unreliable
Emotional resilience in the face of gaslighting and propaganda
Resource sharing when systems become unstable
Collective power to resist oppressive policies
Safe spaces to practice solidarity

Start With What You Care About
The strongest communities form around shared values and interests, not just shared circumstances. In times of rising fascism, being clear about your values becomes even more crucial. Ask yourself questions like:
What kind of world do you want to live in? What rights and freedoms will you defend? What changes do you want to see? These aren't just philosophical questions – they're your roadmap to finding others who will stand with you when it matters most.
Digital-First Doesn't Mean Digital-Only
While online spaces can be a starting point, building trusted in-person connections is crucial:
Join local Facebook groups or subreddits aligned with your values
Follow local activists and community leaders on social media
Join Slack or Discord communities focused on mutual aid
Participate in virtual events that have local presence
Always prioritize building secure, trusted relationships offline
Create Before You Find
Sometimes the community you need doesn't exist yet. That's okay – you can start building it:
Start a reading group focused on history and resistance movements
Host small gatherings to discuss community needs and responses
Create a regular volunteer group for vulnerable populations
Organize skill-shares focused on community resilience
Start a weekly walking group to build relationships while staying aware of neighborhood changes
Expanding Your Circles Strategically
As you meet people, focus on building trust and reliability:
Ask questions about what matters to them
Share your own concerns and hopes
Look for opportunities to demonstrate solidarity
Be consistent in showing up
Follow through on commitments
Practice security culture while building trust

Finding Common Ground in Unexpected Places
Value-aligned people often gather in spaces focused on community care:
Mutual aid networks
Community gardens
Independent bookstores and libraries
Local art spaces and music venues
Tenant rights organizations
Religious or spiritual communities focused on social justice
Professional organizations working for positive change
Nurturing New Connections
In uncertain times, deep relationships matter more than broad networks:
Create regular rhythms of gathering
Share resources and information
Celebrate victories together
Support each other during challenges
Build traditions that strengthen bonds
Practice collective decision-making in your group
When Things Feel Slow
Community building takes time, but the investment is crucial:
Keep showing up consistently
Focus on building deep trust with a core group
Celebrate small wins
Remember that others are seeking community too
Stay genuine while being security-conscious
Creating Safe and Inclusive Spaces
Strong communities must be actively protective of their members:
Establish clear values and boundaries
Address conflicts directly and compassionately
Make space for different perspectives while maintaining core values
Create multiple ways for people to participate
Regular check-ins about safety and community needs
Develop protocols for supporting members concerned for their safety
The Power of Patient Resistance
Real community – the kind that can withstand external pressures and protect its members – takes time to build. Don't rush the process. Focus on creating genuine connections and building trust. Remember that every strong resistance movement in history was built on a foundation of community bonds.
Next Steps
Start today by taking one small action:
Make a list of your core values and non-negotiable rights
Research three local groups working for positive change
Reach out to one person you trust to discuss community needs
Plan a small gathering around mutual support
Join a mutual aid network
Remember: Every powerful movement started with people who were willing to take the first step. Your future community members are out there, looking for connection too. In times like these, building strong, values-aligned communities isn't just about personal fulfillment – it's about creating the strong networks we all need to protect each other and resist oppression.
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